Why people are so unhappy about who they are, and some of them even take the risk to change their sexuallity by going through some lethal medical procedure . Well, i got a friend of mine that claims himself of being gay. Today he calls me to complain about someone that said " Being gay nowdays is an addiction like when You are addicted to drugs". I just add certain people are addicted to the feeling that they found when they had tried it the first time. I gave him my point of view in that situation. I said to him ,some people change they way they look because they like someone else better than themselves ,which i think it's a low self esteem problem. Some people change as a person because they want to be a macho , they want to show off and have attention of others without thinking about the ramification. I hate people that always follow others and never try to be their own leader. I told him you are not gay you are a gay want tobe. Whether he liked it or not i told him what he should have known. I got a friend back in Haiti he is a real gay. In my country they dont like gay. You can get hurt by being gay,and u can even get killed. This guy was the person we ,as friends, always try to hook him up with girls. He is handsome. He always has girl chasing him,but he has never interested in girl. One day we talked to him about that situation. he was scared to tell us the truth ,so he finally mentioned that "women dont get me excited. I tried to please people around me by getting together with a woman ,and i have never gotten sexually excited. I tried so hard, but i never succeed. I'am sorry i think im not belong to this world. Men have gotten me excited sexually ,but never a woman. I please myself by doing only God can see me." I said this guy is gay , but you never have problem to hook up with girls. Actually you have a girl friend, and i asked him do you want to call that gay? There's a difference between gay and bisexual. Any men that has no difficulty to get excited sexually with a woman ,and for some reason he wants to be with another man this person is not gay. He or she is addicted. there are few gay people in this world ,but there are millions of gay want to be. I said ,"you are one of him". If you think Back you will see why you want to be gay,and if the reason is not what i just said you are not gay you are an addict.